Do you two have a to-do list? I mean a spending time with your Boo list. Impregnated with actions and statements filled with bliss. Going to places that remind you of the first caress and kiss after you met. Don’t forget that love is an action of the heart that needs reminders and sparks in order for it to grow.
Don’t you know that the more you explore and grow together, it increases your heart’s satisfaction? It renews passion and attraction like wood does to an already burning flame. Like a picture in a frame, they remind you of what you initially saw in each other. This to-do list is a chance for you two to re-discover one another.
A chance to reveal a new part of your heart in order to keep your bond strong. No matter how long you’ve been together checking off this to-do list will breathe new life into your union. Like a blood transfusion to a body that needs it. Your passion for one another feeds it. The list opens new doors of vulnerability. Not to mention it increases intimacy. Spiritually, emotionally, and physically, but you have to try it and see.
I don’t mean to be preachy, but my job is to help you see how much closer you two can be. You might ask, “How is that possible being that we’ve been together so long?” Because when you two grow and evolve it will solve the issue of you knowing everything about each other. Having the to-do list will allow you to peel back new layers of one another.
So! Don’t be stagnant and complacent. Continue to add things to the list, and do them in order to erase it. Long-lasting love and togetherness take sacrifice. There will be challenges, the road is not all rosy and nice. Just remember to treat trouble with patience and good times with gratitude. With these two God will bless you with an understanding attitude.
Whenever you disagree, do it with love, mercy, and affection. With these three God will grant your union Divine protection. There’s no such thing as perfection. This is just a little advice for you two. Just take heed to what I’m saying because you have a list to-do.
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