Relationship Woes: Clearing The Air & Getting In Gear

My first love of writing has always been poetry. Poetry is so personal. This poem is an encouragement for anyone who is having relationship woes, past or present, that the answer lies within you. However, it requires intentions to change, determination, discipline, and putting in the effort.

It’s time to clear the air. Don’t you dare say I don’t care because I don’t know you. How can I understand what you go through?

What! I’ve had my share of relationships and breakups too. I know it’s rough feeling like a roommate or you’re afraid to go on a date because you don’t want to get hurt again.

But when do you plan to repair what’s broken? You struggle with feelings that are unspoken, but those are the feelings you need to work out? To rid yourself of the doubt in your soul that you’re not worthy.

Your spirit is the key. With discipline and effort, you can choose a relationship that’s healthy. It’s about doing the inner work you need to do. In other words, a good relationship starts with you taking care of you.

The question that remains is, “What are you going to do?” Are going to keep making excuses and not make the inward and outward corrections? Inside you have the direction, but you need to dig deep and allow it to come out.

That’s what being whole and having insight is all about. I wrote this poem to let you know I’m here if you need assistance. To build up the resistance to accept a relationship less than you deserve.

You’re whole without having an intimate bond, but if you would like to love and lean on when things get tight… It’s alright. That’s not something you need to fight. At the same time, it shouldn’t be something that keeps you up at night.

It’s time for you to clear the air. Where do you want to be in 3 years? Do you want to blame others or submit to your own fears? Or, do you want to thrive and feel alive doing the things you want to do? The choice is up to you. Now! What do you want to do?


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Louis Morris

Louis Morris

Louis Morris is a Certified Relationship Coach who helps couples deal with marital and relationship discord involving issues of communication, intimacy, and helping them enhance their spiritual and emotional connection. He also assists singles who are divorced, been through a break-up, or lost a partner to get their groove back.


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