Navigating The Relationship Realm: Advice From The Coach

Can a couple be happy and miserable with their relationship at the same time? This is a rhetorical question. Of course not. However, many couples try to accomplish this by hoping and wishing things will automatically get better. This is not the way God has created His creation. Not only did He create the creation […]

Religious Restrictions Regarding Sexual Relations

It’s a common belief amongst people who don’t believe in a religion that sexual relations in religion are very restricted and uptight. Let me be blunt and say, “Nothing is further from the truth.” Now mind you, with some religions that is the case due to restrictions that men have attributed to the faith. However, when we […]

The Principles Of Cheating Are 4.

The subject of cheating is huge in my line of work (Relationship Coaching). Because of its importance and effects on intimate relationships, I have to address the matter of cheating in some detail. I already dealt with the internal factors that cause a person to cheat in my article There Are 2 Pillars To Cheating […]

The Characteristics Of Manhood Are Mainstays

I feel compelled to write this because I’ve been observing and hearing some disturbing things about men. Women have said that men say to them, “I am intimidated by you.” Or, “Men don’t approach you because you’re intimidating.” Another favorite is, “I don’t want a woman who makes more money than me.” Where does this […]

2 Heart Protectors In Intimate Relationships

As a Relationship Coach, I talk to people in general and clients specifically about the importance of boundaries and communication. Why? They protect the heart in any relationship, but especially in intimate relationships. When a person sets boundaries for himself or herself, he or she will be more open to being vulnerable. This may seem […]

Tips On How You Two Can Grow As A Couple

Are you worried that you and your partner will grow apart? Keep in mind, that everyone grows at their own pace. Believe me, I understand, because I’ve been there. You’re concerned that your thirst for knowledge and personal growth will cause a rift between you and your partner. It might seem like your only choices […]

Don’t Underestimate The Importance Of Attraction

A question was asked on a live stream last week, “If your spouse gained one hundred and fifty pounds would that end the marriage?” My immediate answer was, “It could.” Please understand. I am not a shallow person. However, I’ve spoken about these matters in two places: 10 Relationship Tips Vol. 6 Chemistry and Keep […]

“Make It Last Forever.” Have The Right Conversations

Making a commitment to another person is a huge step. As a Relationship Coach, I see how quickly marriages and relationships fall apart because both people didn’t go through the proper examination to make sure they are right for one another long-term. It’s not a daunting task, as many people will try and make you […]

Intimacy: Two Elements Of Its Essence

These two things, giving of oneself willingly and receiving it with joy, are part of intimacy’s essence. It’s unfortunate that many people have such a limited view of being intimate with another soul. That’s right! I used the word ‘soul’ because it’s about two people bearing their souls with one another. This can only be […]

Purely Looking At Love… A Return To The Heart

The first love I ever had is still fresh in my mind. It was pure and sweet. As a result of youth, lack of knowledge, and newness of the emotion, it did not take much effort. It was fresh, simple, and spontaneous. I let that feeling get away from me. Now mind you, the playfulness […]