3 Steps To Rebound Quickly From A Divorce Or Breakup.

Sometimes relationships don’t last. It is important for the people involved in unions that fall apart to not let the bad effects of a divorce or break-up linger spiritually or emotionally. Here, I give 3 tips that will speed up the healing process.


1 Learn The Lessons

This is the first step that must be taken. Not only in relationships but in life, there are lessons to be learned in good or bad occurrences. However, this process will look different depending on the mindset of the person. One of the surefire ways to accomplish this is through writing.


I know it sounds strange, but writing helps us separate our thoughts and feelings about a person or situation from our body. In doing so, we are able to examine those thoughts and feelings with a more critical eye in order to gain the lessons we need to heal.


2 Practicing Forgiveness


This not only entails forgiving our former partner. But we must also forgive ourselves. In many cases, we are harder on ourselves when a relationship falls apart because we think we could have done more to keep it together. In some instances that is true. That both people weren’t willing to give more of themselves to the union.


However, holding on to the resentment we feel for ourselves or our former partner, will not only hinder us in relationships going forward, but it could affect other areas of our life if we don’t rid ourselves of the resentment. One of the ways to do this is to examine our own mistakes first. The reason being, we will understand as human beings we are flawed.


Consciously acknowledging that fact makes us realize that mistakes shouldn’t define us but should motivate us to be better. Practicing forgiveness also improves our connection to the Creator, which in turn, He gives us the peace of heart and mind to move past our mistakes and the mistakes of our former partner.


3 Refresh & Rebuild


In short, don’t stay stuck. Try new things. Get a new hairdo or haircut, buy some new clothes, try a new hobby, meet new people, etc. You get the idea. Don’t sit around and think about the old relationship. Actively pursue moving on. Don’t just think about it or talk about it. Do it. Enhance spiritual practices. Learn more. Either through reading, audiobooks, educational videos, anything to help expand our horizons, go for it.


No question, divorce, and breakups are tough. But we can’t allow them to cripple us in any way. Life is too short to debilitate ourselves due to a past relationship.



Join Jeanell and I for a lively relationship workshop on Saturday the 17th & Sunday the 18th at 5 PM EDT & 2PM PDT Here is the Link:

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/7911270089 To join for free, the Relationship Talks with Jeanell and Louis.


If you would like to get in touch with Louis for The Couple’s Critical Communication Plan, or The Relationship Rescue Plan, go to his Work With Me Page. Or, following him on Instagram @louis_morris_coaching. Download the free PDF E-Book: The Relationship Rescue Plan. Give further support to The Heart Matters Community by checking out the brand on Amazon Merch: The Heart Matters Brand

Also, The Relationship Rescue Workshop is available. 4 Video Set, which includes everything from having outside interest to dating tips and surprises. Pick it up now. Thanks for your support.



Louis Morris

Louis Morris

Louis Morris is a Certified Relationship Coach who helps couples deal with marital and relationship discord involving issues of communication, intimacy, and helping them enhance their spiritual and emotional connection. He also assists singles who are divorced, been through a break-up, or lost a partner to get their groove back.


Download the FREE COACHING WORKSHEET & Discover 10 Powerful Questions to Help You Get Your Groove Back in Your Relationship!

*By signing up for my free worksheet you’ll also be joining my mailing list where I send my best tips, helpful content, and service offers. I never sell your information and you can easily unsubscribe at any time.


Enter Your Information Below to Get Your FREE 'Get Your Groove Back' Coaching Worksheet

I hate spam & promise to keep your email safe.  Privacy Policy